“Swipe Smart, Stay Safe: Online Dating Tips for Women Who Know Their Worth”
- Bonita Payton
- Apr 1
- 2 min read
Online dating can feel like a game of chance — but with the right mindset and tools, you can protect your peace, find real connections, and date from a place of confidence.

Hi, I’m Bonita — and after hearing so many stories from smart, successful women navigating the world of online dating, I knew it was time to speak up and serve.
Whether you're new to dating apps or giving them one more shot (again 😅), here's what every woman needs to know before she swipes:
💘 5 Powerful Tips for Online Dating for Women and Men:
1. Don’t Rush the Vibe Check. Looks fade — energy doesn't lie. Take time to ask questions and watch for consistency in tone, effort, and interest.
2. Keep the Mystery – Until It’s Safe. Never give out your home address, work location, or personal contact info (like your real email or cell) too soon. Use the app or a second number like Google Voice.
3. Set Boundaries Early. Be direct about your intentions. If you’re dating for fun, say it. If you're dating for partnership, own it. You’re not asking for permission—you’re stating your truth.
4. Meet in Public. Always. Coffee shops, brunch spots, bookstores — anywhere with people and lights. Let a friend know your location and check in before and after.
5. Don’t Ignore Red Flags. If they ghost you, show up inconsistently, love-bomb, or press for too much too soon — trust your gut. You deserve ease, not confusion.
✨ Download My Free Tip Sheet:
“Swipe Smart: The Online Dating Confidence Guide” Includes: ✅ Conversation starters✅ Safety checklist✅ Vibe-check journaling page✅ My 10 personal dating commandments (yes, really)
📥 Click here to grab your copy and start dating like the high-value woman you are: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/14RroRSCG4HO_BBXPkYVavsbkDKE-Fv_O?usp=sharing
🔚 Final Word:
Love doesn’t have to be complicated. But protecting your energy in the process? That’s non-negotiable.
You can date AND keep your peace. Let me show you how. 💖
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